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Kristie Dahlia Home offers a broad spectrum of support for a wide-awake and joyful life: yoga, thai yoga massage, reiki training, meditation course, spiritual counsel, weddings and ceremonies, based in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Home Meditation Course: Meditation as Intimacy with the Self (SOLD OUT)

June 9 - August 14, anywhere you may be

O Nobly Born, O you of glorious origins, remember your radiant true nature, the essence of mind. Trust it. Return to it. It is home.
- From the Tibetan Book of the Dead

This course will explore the practices of meditation and mindfulness as fundamental acts of self-love and the cultivation of intimacy with oneself. Usually in a course description I would list the practices I intend to offer. For this course, I wish to simply and explicitly name our ground and goal as intimacy and self-love, and to take the freedom to choose which practices feel right to serve you best in the moment. I wish you to come not for the bag of tricks list, but for yourself. You are the treasure I call you toward. Nothing is of greater value than your relationship with your own consciousness and all-that-is, and this is what we've set our sights on in this course.

This course is full. If you wish to learn of future ones, email Kristie.

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On Meditation and Time

I've heard about the magic of 20 minutes of meditating a day several times - most memorably from a middle-aged woman in a hotel gym bathroom who said that she and her husband were promised by a guru that meditating 20 minutes a day would change their lives, and bingo, five years later and they own their own strip mall! No judgement - each has our own idea of enlightenment...

My question: what can be accomplished if you only have 10 minutes a day?

Sweet love, I am not a guru and I make no promises other than to tell you the truth as I know it, but I will say some things about practice and about time. This little question, is, you might be surprised to hear, the hardest one I have been asked in this Meditation Course thus far -- because the answer is along the guru lines. Guru literally means "dispeller of darkness." In America, we use guru to mean teacher. In India, a guru is an enlightened being who is standing on the rim between states of awareness shouting COME ON IN THE WATER IS FANTASTIC.

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How We Change - On Pratipaksha Bhavana

One of my students is concerned for the health of their child and asked me for advice about how they could go about compartmentalizing those feelings in the presence of the child. My advice about this is an elucidation of the yogic principle of pratipaksha bhavana which I thought might be useful to share.

The mind has a thing it is concerned about. That is what is happening. The brain's fear/safety center, the amygdala, gets first dibs on responding to thoughts; this keeps us safe and alive. So the tendency is for fearful thoughts about the thing the mind is concerned about to arise. That's natural, and that's fine. What comes next, that's where we practice. In yoga, we use pratipaksha bhavana to shift mental tendencies that are not useful; a common translation is "cultivation of the opposite thought."

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